Motherhood vs Womanhood: Reclaiming Yourself
You might be wondering why I chose the title Motherhood vs Womanhood. What about dads and fatherhood? Don’t worry — I’ll write a blog about that one day too. But today, the spotlight is on you, women. This post isn’t about shaming fathers; it’s about uplifting all the mothers out there. Motherhood is a beautiful […]
Celebrating Small Wins: Why Noticing Progress Matters
Parenting is full of moments that feel messy, chaotic, or downright exhausting. Between homework battles, sibling squabbles, and endless reminders about chores, it’s easy to feel like progress is invisible. Yet, even on the hardest days, change is happening—often in tiny, almost imperceptible ways. The key is learning to notice and celebrate small wins. But […]
Why Unstructured Play Is Better for Your Child’s Development
Why Unstructured Play Might Be the Secret Ingredient for Your Child’s Development In our busy lives, it’s easy to believe that packed schedules—soccer, music lessons, coding camps—are the key to giving our kids a “good childhood.” But research and child development experts suggest that unstructured, child-led play might be just as essential, if not more […]
Sibling Rivalry or Something More?
As a parent, it’s easy to dismiss your children’s constant bickering as typical sibling rivalry. After all, isn’t it just part of growing up? But what if there’s something more beneath the surface? Understanding the root causes of sibling conflict can transform your approach to parenting and help foster a more harmonious home environment. The […]
How Quality Time Reduces Sibling Rivalry
Sibling rivalry is one of the most common challenges parents face. From arguing over toys to competing for attention, it can feel exhausting and sometimes you wonder if it will ever end. The good news? A lot of sibling tension can be reduced by one simple strategy: quality time with each child. Why Sibling Rivalry […]
Parent Yoga at Tutum Counselling: A Gentle Practice for Caregivers
At Tutum Counselling in Calgary, we honour the role of parents and caregivers as emotional anchors in their families. Yet when you’re constantly caring for others, your vitality can get postponed. Parent & Caregiver Yoga offers a trauma-informed, compassionate space to return to yourself. This gentle movement practice helps you pause, breathe, and reset emotionally, […]
8 Questions to Ask If You Think Your Child Has Anxiety
Could My Child’s Behaviour Be a Sign of Anxiety? If your child is avoiding school, complaining of stomachaches, or reacting emotionally to small things, it’s natural to feel concerned. You might wonder: Is this just a phase, or something more? Many children experience anxiety, but they often express it through behaviour, not words. Studies show […]
Emotional Safety for Kids: Why it Matters, and How to Nurture it at Home
When children don’t feel emotionally safe, their world shrinks You might notice withdrawal, tantrums, or persistent worry. They might stop trying new things, avoid conversations, or react strongly to small stressors. Underneath those behaviours, many kids simply don’t feel safe being themselves. Emotional safety isn’t about being problem-free—it’s about your child knowing they are loved, […]
Helping Your Child Build a Positive Body Image in a Social Media World
The Pressure to Look “Perfect” Starts Early In today’s world, children and teens are constantly exposed to images of “ideal” bodies on social media, in ads, and even through their peers. As a parent, it’s natural to worry about how this affects your child’s body image and self-worth. At Tutum Counselling, we support children and […]
How to Use Visual Schedules Without It Feeling Like a Classroom
At Tutum Counselling, we often hear from parents: “I want to help my child with routines, but I don’t want our home to feel like a classroom.” This concern is especially common among families of neurodivergent children who benefit from structure but also crave the comfort and flexibility of home.l Visual schedules can bridge this […]
Conflicting Parenting Styles: What to Do When Mom’s Rules Clash with Dad’s
It’s no secret that parenting can be challenging, especially when both parents don’t always see eye-to-eye. One of the most common struggles families face—whether together or separated—is inconsistency in rules and expectations between parents. You might find yourself saying, “Well, at Dad’s house they’re allowed to…,” or “Mom never makes them do that!” Sound familiar? […]
Helping Shy Kids Find Their Voice
If your child hesitates to speak up in class, avoids eye contact with new people, or clings to you in social settings, you’re not alone. Shy kids often experience the world a little more cautiously, and while shyness is a completely normal personality trait, it can sometimes make it harder for them to express themselves […]
Why Tantrums Aren’t Just for Toddlers
If your 7- or 10-year-old has ever collapsed into a puddle of tears over the wrong colour cup or screamed “You don’t understand me!” before slamming their bedroom door, you’re not alone. Many parents expect tantrums to end with the toddler years. But the truth is, emotional outbursts in older kids are completely normal—and more […]
Big Feelings, Small Bodies: Helping Kids Manage Overwhelm
Ever watched your child go from perfectly fine to full meltdown in 30 seconds flat? Maybe it’s a lost Lego piece, a tag in their shirt, or too much noise after school. These moments can feel exhausting—but they’re also completely normal. When kids are overwhelmed, their bodies and brains go into “fight, flight, or freeze” […]
Helping Your Child Develop a Love for Learning
Every parent dreams of seeing their child succeed, and one of the greatest gifts you can give them is a lifelong love for learning. When children develop a love for learning, they naturally seek knowledge, embrace challenges, and grow into confident, curious adults. If you’re a parent in Calgary, here are some practical ways to […]
The Importance of Play in Child Development and Mental Health
Play is more than just fun for kids—it’s essential for their development and emotional well-being. Whether they’re building with blocks, running outside, or playing make-believe, children learn valuable skills through play that help them grow and thrive. Here’s why play is so important and how you can make it a regular part of your child’s […]
Signs Your Child Might Benefit from Counselling
Understanding when a child may need extra emotional support can be challenging for any parent. Children experience a wide range of emotions and behaviors as they grow, and occasional mood swings, frustration, or anxiety are perfectly normal. However, certain patterns may indicate that your child could benefit from counselling. Recognizing these signs early can make […]
Infant Massage: Building Bonds, Trust, and Emotional Connection
If you’re a new parent, chances are you’ve heard of infant massage, maybe in a baby class or a parenting blog. Often it’s presented as a sweet bedtime ritual, but it’s so much more than that. From a therapeutic lens, infant massage is a powerful way to build secure attachment, nurture emotional safety, and strengthen […]
How to Talk to Kids About Big Emotions
Learning how to talk to kids about big emotions can be overwhelming, but it’s one of the most important things you can do for their emotional development. As parents, you’ve probably seen your child experience intense feelings like anger, sadness, or fear—sometimes without fully understanding what’s happening. This can lead to frustration or even behavioural […]
She’s Not Just Distracted: ADHD Awareness in Girls
When we think about ADHD, the image that often comes to mind is a hyperactive child who can’t sit still. However, ADHD doesn’t always look like this—especially in girls. ADHD awareness in girls is crucial because their symptoms often go unnoticed, leading to delayed diagnoses and missed opportunities for support. As a parent, understanding how […]